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Guys Get More Dates With a Guitar

Guitarby Kurian M. Tharakan

Nicholas Guéguen is a professor of psychology at université de Bretagne Sud in France. In 2013, he published a paper describing an experiment where a male confederate approached 300 women at random and asked for their phone number. The women were all between the ages of 18 – 22, and the young man introduced himself by saying, “Hello. My name’s Antoine. I just want to say that I think you’re really pretty. I have to go to work this afternoon, and I was wondering if you would give me your phone number. I’ll phone you later and we can have a drink together someplace.”

The only difference in the situations were that:

  • 1/3 of the time he was carrying a guitar case
  • 1/3 of the time he was carrying a sports bag
  • 1/3 of the time he was carrying nothing at all

The results?

  • 31% of the young women gave him their number when he was carrying a guitar case
  • 9% of the young women gave him their number when he was carrying a sports bag
  • 14% of the young women gave him their number when he was carrying nothing at all

In another study in Israel, researchers sent friend requests through a Facebook profile with a photo of a man to 100 single female students at Tel Aviv University and Ben Gurion University. 50 of the friend requests had the guy in the profile photo playing a guitar, while in the other 50 he was guitarless.

3X more acceptances

The results?

The guy with the guitar got almost 3X more acceptances (14 vs. 5) than the fellow without the instrument. Now, its interesting to note that no one knows how well he plays the guitar, or whether he can play at all. But the mere presence of the guitar is enough to swing the vote almost 3X more in a positive direction.

These experiments clearly demonstrate the power of visual value indicators. As examples, common visual value indicators of societal status include custom tailored clothes, luxury cars, and big homes. For a lawyer it might be their degrees, associated law firm, and the high profile cases they’ve worked on. Your prospect’s brain is actively looking for these visual indicators to lower their anxiety and risk, as well as direct them to a high potential choice. Recognize this need and give it to them.

About Kurian Tharakan

Kurian Mathew Tharakan is the founder of sales and marketing strategy firm StrategyPeak Sales & Marketing Advisors, a 27 year veteran of the sales and marketing industry, and the author of the Amazon bestseller, The Seven Essential Stories Charismatic Leaders Tell. He has consulted for companies in numerous sectors, including Retail, Professional Services, Manufacturing, Distribution, High Technology, Software, Non-Profit, and Life Sciences. In addition to his consulting practice, he has also been an Executive in Residence at the business accelerators TEC Edmonton and NABI where he has assisted clients with their go-to-market strategy. Prior to StrategyPeak, Mr. Tharakan was a vice president of sales & marketing for an Alberta-based software firm where his team achieved notable wins with several members of the US Fortune 500.

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